.However what Astrid does not realize however is a truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has pair of boys-- can easily verify: The reality that your connection with your parents adjustments and progresses as you each age, as well as hopefully for the better. "Your planet centers around [your children] when they're babies [and also] it is actually a lot job however attractive," O'Hara points out. "Later on, you truly miss out on that, considering that then you can't get all of them to accomplish just about anything you want them to perform, due to the fact that they begin cultivating their own minds, their very own opinions." As well as ultimately, you end up in the spot O'Hara, whose children reside in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself today, capable to pick up from her kids. "They're just such great younger people," she claims. "I am actually not their buddy, but I enjoy possessing chats with them as well as understanding just how they consider life.".